Pamela Stenberg

Pamela J. Stenberg

Tuesday, December 29th, 2020
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Pamela Jean Stenberg

Pam was born December 6, 1962, in Grand Forks, ND, to Virgil and Helen (Sorenson) Stenberg, and passed away December 29, 2020, in Providence, RI.

Pam was a graduate of Grand Forks Central High School, the University of North Dakota, and Boston College. She was also a national merit scholar, and language student in Germany. After graduation from the University of North Dakota with degrees in Chemistry and German, she earned a Doctorate of Chemistry from Boston College, and held faculty positions at Weber State University, Ogden, UT, and Northeastern University, Boston, MA.

With gentleness, kindness, and sensitivity, Pam lived her life among friends and family. Her favorite role was being a mother to her children – the center of her life. She faithfully loved them, attended their activities, shopped with them, and encouraged their interests. She encouraged her children through college and into their career pursuits. Her eye for color, passion for interior design, and furniture arrangement was always fun and enlightening. With a ready smile and a wicked sense of humor, Pam could make any gathering fun.

Pam is survived by her son Jude Capachietti and daughter Bella Capachietti, her father Virgil Stenberg; and her siblings Beth (Tam) Bodenheimer, Mary Severson, and Bradley (Michelle) Stenberg. She was preceded in death by her mother, Helen Stenberg.

Friends and relatives are invited to join the virtual celebration of life for Pam to be held at 7 pm ET on January 26, 2021. Please contact her children or siblings to get information on the virtual service. A in person celebration will be held later when safe to gather. Donations may be sent to the charity of your choice in memory of Pam.
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Gigi Goven MD

Posted at 07:59pm
I'm so sorry to learn of Pam's passing. We had great times in college and medical school. Would like to hear why she passed away. Please email me at with heartfelt sympathy. Gigi Goven, MD.

Peri Jo McKay

Posted at 12:35pm
As I remember and think of Pam I am quickly reminded of her gentle spirit, her loving nature and her beautiful smile. Pam and I shared so much during our Jr. High and High School days; she was the ying to my yang, she was my best friend! She had a giggle that would grow into an amazing laugh, she had a bright quick wit, a heart of gold and boy was she smart! I will carry Pam with me every where I go, she will forever be part of my heart and I will always cherish our friendship. May Pam's spirit be with us always, may her beautiful light shine within all of us who loved her so much! My sincere condolences to Pam's family and her beautiful children, Jude and Bella! Pam was very special and she will be greatly missed. I love you Pam! Peri Jo "Kringen" McKay

Beth bodenheimer

Posted at 09:45pm
Pam - you’re always in my heart. Your compassion and kindness will live on.

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